Wednesday, February 19, 2020

The Elixir Of Youth





A girl sits on a chair in a blaze of media coverage and accuses adults of stealing her dreams and hopes for the future, and lacking the courage to fix the problems she and her generation will inherit. Did the world alter its velocity, or change the way it spins on its axis? Was anyone listening? Was she over-emotional? 

Astrologers do an identikit portrait of her personality from an interpretation of her character qualities, based on the positions of the planets at the hour of her birth. Instagram and Facebook are filled with images of her, demanding ‘How dare you?’ And almost from the first moment she speaks, her words and her expressions are transformed into a myriad memes and GIFs. 

J.K. Rowling wrote about prophecies, and envisioned that children would rise from their enforced passivity in a crisis, and would save the world, in Book 7 of the Harry Potter series. This idea is opened up in the classical quotation at the beginning: 

‘Oh, the torment bred in the race,
The grinding scream of death
And the stroke that hits the vein,
The hemorrhage none can staunch, the grief, 
The curse no man can bear.

But there is a cure in the house,
And not outside it, no, 
Not from others but from them,
Their bloody strife. We sing to you, 
Dark gods beneath the earth. 

Now hear, you blissful powers underground - 
Answer the call, send help. 
Bless the children, give them triumph now.‘ (Aeschylus, The Libation Bearers)

Whitney Houston sang it in ‘The Greatest Love Of All’: ‘I believe that children are our future. Teach them well and let them lead the way. Show them all the beauty they possess inside. Give them a sense of pride to make it easier.’

The children of today have grown up fast, and in many ways unprotected, in the shadow not of nuclear war as Generation X did, but amidst the collapsing structures of economic systems which have polarized the world and destroyed the habitat and the moral environment simultaneously. 
But life finds a way: intelligent organisms survive because they adapt, and seek to not merely survive, but thrive and flourish. The wisest know that if a long term survival is wanted, this flourishing must be inclusive and not competitive in the ‘kill or be killed’, ‘win or lose’ ultimatum way that is modelled for us by many of the current leaders of the world. 

It is the passing of the baton that is happening. Inter-generational respect given and demanded. And it is sustained in the actions of the Hogwarts students, hope of the future generations of the wizarding world. They organize, they rally, they defy the rising elements of fascism and sadism. They retreat underground, threatened and defiant, and go into formation; but they emerge with the ability as well as the will to create a better world. The difference I see is that there is a big picture vision available to them: something that is more than ‘Me Me Me’. 

It seems as if the youth movement of 1968 is going through a recycling sequence: 50 years on, and fuelled by frustration and cynicism instead of idealism. Youth are rallying, but their collective uprising is being modified because they are also being rallied and herded. They have withheld themselves from corporate enslavement and the proffered icons of glorified wanderlust, boycotted the convenience of toxic consumables, rejected mechanistic education processes and embraced alternatives to binary thinking. But they are children, being scolded and told that they are disrespectful of their elders. 

The sharp sparks of the Arab Spring, selectively televised protests against the Global Financial Summits, the transport disruptions in Hong Kong, the fresh-faced disaffected in their trillions are becoming fierce, in the way the sensitive do when hit too often. 

'You have stolen my dreams and my childhood with your empty words,' 16 year old climate activist Greta Thunberg thundered this week at world leaders at the 2019 UN Climate Action Summit in New York. 

She has accused these leaders of ignoring the science behind the climate crisis, saying: 'We are in the beginning of a mass extinction and all you can talk about is money and fairy tales of eternal economic growth - how dare you!'

I have been thinking - with Greta’s voice echoing in my ears - of apocalyptic fairy tales and futuristic fiction: in William Goulding’s ‘Lord Of The Flies’, the entire structure of civilization devolves into a struggle for tribal supremacy amongst a group of children. The ending is a brilliant wake-up call: we have been so immersed in the politics and sociology of the brutal battle for survival that we have forgotten the protagonists are children. At the end, after people have been killed and democracy lies in ruins, an adult comes to rescue them and sees a bunch of children who look like savages. 

In Orson Scott Card’s brilliant dystopic ‘Ender’s Game’, the global ‘threat’ takes the form of a space war, and the enemy is an alien race. The ‘soldiers’ who are trained to fight are children, aged 8, 9 and 10, recruited and trained in tactics and skill, and damaged immeasurably by their loss of childhood and their longing for its innocence and its possibility of spontaneity and joy. Ender the child protagonist is manipulated by the adults who are training him: they let him believe that the real war with its mass destruction of a species orchestrated by his special skillset is only a realistic training session. The truth devastates him. 

Greta Thunberg is suspected by some of being used like a ventriloquist’s dummy to voice socialist political viewpoints, and this narrowing of her impact is disrespectful of the bigger picture she has so far managed to articulate. Child labor is used illegally throughout the world, and children are trafficked and utilized by predators and exploiters of all kinds. The rights of children have only comparatively recently been recognized. And more abuse is being reported all the time, and investigated and prosecuted by Royal Commissions. 

What concerns me today is that the thunder and the anger being expressed and generated so fiercely will shortly become whimpers and muffled cries. That the fire of outrage will be doused. That the damage has been done, and the human race is run. 

‘Let the children’s laughter remind us how we used to be,’ sang Whitney Houston. But she herself, and her only daughter, died tragically before their time. And J.K. Rowling’s wondrous imagination failed to provide her heroic, triumphant children with a life less ordinary in their mid 30s. 

My favourite part of the last Harry Potter film was Professor Minerva
McGonagall making the statues coming to life, to help defend the embattled school. Somebody has made the equivalent of that spell happen, in the world today, and (all rhetoric and bluster aside) this may be the way the world we used to know, ends. 

Out with the old. And the thread of continuity between the generations frayed so thin. 

Designing Our Joy






I attended a talk given by a former Olympic athlete recently, a man called John Coyle, who won silver at Lillehammer in speed skating, and is now a motivational speaker of eloquence and energy. 

The subject of this talk was the difference between chronological and experiential time: or, as he put it to us, how to create the endless summers of our childhood days, as life seems to get faster and more bound by routine and less joyful as we grow older. 

A lot of our best memories as human beings, the most vivid, the most loaded with sensory impressions, are lit up in our imagination because they were our first experiences of something: our first swim in the ocean, the first climb of a sacred mountain, our first dance, etc. Anticipation was huge, and our openness to the experience was heightened by adrenaline. 

The teenage years and our twenties and early thirties contain some powerful life experiences, electrified by wonder, because they extend the boundaries of our known world. We are growing, through study, work and socially, and we are on an arc of expansive discovery. 

Physically, our bodies are full of vitality and we are fit and flexible: energy in motion. Our immunity is high - we can shake off illness and depression easily. We are enjoying the adventure, and the process of rapid growth and learning. 

John Coyle pointed out that in our search for stability and freedom from anxiety in our lives, both professionally and personally, we often settle down after this early flurry of activity into a passive and unexciting personal Middle Ages. Goals are achieved, and the mode is ‘keeping on keeping on’ - continuity, life insurance, health insurance - rather than discovering new ground. It becomes mechanical, and often tastes stale. 

We are becoming petrified - not in an exciting way. We are turning into stone. How do we know this is happening? When we cannot remember doing anything new or meeting anyone different for ages. When we find ourselves doing roughly the same things and saying the same things with the same people. Year after year. Like clockwork. 

This is chronological time. Measured by sameness and routine and schedule. Monochrome in colour. 

The vibrant colours of wondrous, life-enhancing experiences are how we measure experiential time. And according to Coyle, we can design at least 5 or 6 of these experiences in our lives each year. 

The more we can do so, the more alive we will feel. 

We plan a trip to a place we have not been to, before. We read books or watch films we have never known or heard of. We challenge ourselves to expand our habitual food and drink repertoire. We make new friends. We alter our set patterns, and make life more interesting and less predictable. 

Perhaps most importantly, we embrace the concept that danger, trauma and emergency should not be airbrushed out of our lives. We should allow ourselves the opportunity to go outside the sanitized realm of our perpetual safety and comfort. We could challenge ourselves to face and live some inconvenient truths, amidst the high volume thread count sheets and luxury towels of our survivalist aspirations. 

Coyle told us about a trip he had made with his daughter to a resort a few years ago where everything was luxurious and gorgeous - and in which he felt restless and cocooned. He suggested they go for a walk towards a town they could see the lights of, nearby. He had not researched it or prepared for the trip. The town looked closer and more accessible than it was. 

They took ages to get there - and as it was on a tropical atoll, their rubber shoes were ripped to shreds by the coral on the sands and they were in physical pain, dehydrated, hungry and exhausted when they finally sat down. But he said the meal they finally had at the end of that unexpected trip was one of the best and most delicious feasts he had ever enjoyed. He can remember every part of it in detail, years later. He can recall it at will. Because it was such an unexpected contrast with what had come before. 

Listening to him, I remembered something a student of mine had said some years ago. His sister suffered from depression, and he had observed that she would send herself into a downward spiral by focusing obsessively on one negative event or situation and blowing it all out of proportion to the point where she was frantic with sadness, glum and downcast. She felt helpless to stop this process once it started. 

He said, I thought what if she could reverse this? She could find one thing, however small, like a tiny orange flower in a grey arid zone, and expand it, zoom its significance in her mind, intensely celebrate it, until it took over all her mental space. It would be a remedy for the sadness! 

Similarly, we can create joy for ourselves and certain select others by planning opportunities to surprise ourselves, to be open and to respond in a heightened way to what gives us most pleasure. We can slow down the time for these joys - we can zoom in on them, mentally. These are the experiences we remember, and we can pattern them like lights on a string, to illuminate our way. 


We’ll Always Have Paris



Image Credit: Notre Dame Cathedral in flames from The Guardian



Humphrey Bogart says this to Ingrid Bergman in the film ‘Casablanca’. A great exit line, as he farewells the love of his life with supreme gallantry and apparent nonchalance. 

Paris represents very different things to different people, of course. To the characters played in the classic film by Bogart and Bergman, the city of light represented their wondrous days of love and happiness, brought to an abrupt end by the gross invasion of Nazi soldiers. 

A few years ago, there was a terrorist attack in Paris. Do you remember? There are so many atrocities these days, it is difficult to keep track at times. It was mid-November, 2015, and the bombings were a series of co-ordinated attacks. 

The world was shocked, and horrified. Every TV screen showed the scenes, and the panel discussions with expert analysts and commentators seeking to process this orchestrated tragedy. 

Those were early days for social media influencers, with Instagram in its early days, but anyone feeling compelled to comment had an opportunity to participate in the global grief. 

A Facebook friend of mine at the time  posted a poem called ‘Your Paris’ on her page, saying it was by Sylvia Plath. It was not. It was a piece of fan art poetry written by someone else, calling him/herself ‘OnlyCrow’. At the very bottom of the poem, it says: ‘A response to Ted Hughes’ poem in the style of Sylvia Plath’. 



Not wanting to embarrass the poster of the poem in front of her FB audience, I contacted her on Messenger when I saw the post, and said I believed she had made an error. Her brazen, argumentative response amazed me. She said she felt sure it was a little-known poem by Plath. I said that specific title was a poem written by Plath’s husband, Ted Hughes. She said: then this poem must have been Sylvia Plath’s response to his poem! 

The original poem in question, ‘Your Paris’, by Ted Hughes, was a bitter revelation about the honeymoon he and Plath had spent in Paris. It was riven with ironies: the couple even in those early days were incompatible, estranged, experiencing the city differently in radical ways. The city he knew had just survived the war, the same war Bogart’s character had referred to, in ‘Casablanca’. The walls of the beautiful historic buildings were ‘patched and scabbed with posters’, pockmarked with bullets, and the people were damaged in ways that could not be glossed over: 

‘So recently the coffee was still bitter 
As acorns, and the waiters’ eyes 
Clogged with dregs of betrayal, reprisal, 
hatred. 
I was not much ravished by the view of the roofs. 
My Paris was a post-war utility 
survivor, 
The stink of fear still hanging in the wardrobes, 
Collaborateurs barely out of their twenties, 
Every other face closed by the Camps...’

Ted Hughes, ‘Your Paris’. 

Hughes described Plath as willfully ignorant of recent history, her ‘ecstasies ricocheting’, her ‘gushy burblings’, her ‘shatter of exclamations’, the ‘thesaurus of her cries’ only grazing the surface of her surroundings: sentimental without being truly emotional, striking an attitude she thought was appropriate, a poser, cut off from herself as well as her surroundings, including himself. 

The person who had posted the fan poem on her Facebook had not read Ted Hughes’ poem. She had probably been taken unawares by the contemporary terror attack, and could not at short notice manufacture an original response to the hot button topic, so she had looked up ‘Paris’ and ‘Poetry’ on Google’s search engine, and grabbed the most emotive post to share and make herself relevant, which is the most overriding concern for a wannabe influencer. 

The thing is, Plath could not have written that poem in response to Hughes, because Hughes wrote it and published it decades after his wife’s  death, in the collection ‘Birthday Letters’. This fact was pointed out by me to the poster of the poem, in our private chat on Messenger. She said: ‘Well, who cares? Everyone today attributes everything to Shakespeare, anyway.’

So you see, while terrorists attack eternal cities and places of worship, there is another contest going on, amidst the breaking down of incompatible beliefs and value systems. It matters who said what, and when. It matters that identities are not conflated, and demarcations are not blurred. It actually matters, that people create original work, and that it is correctly attributed to them. It matters that false truths are not perpetuated, by what Hughes himself calls ‘practiced lips’. 

The person who made that prideful error had been a student in Sri Lanka with a degree in Arts. A reader of books. A person who considered herself to be highly literate. But she was also - in that instance - careless and inexact, and actual inaccuracy and ignorance are costly, if you want something more than rapid fire attention and Insta-fame. 

I was asked last week about what I thought characterized great literature, in an interview. And I thought it through, the minutes ticking in the sound studio where the podcast was recorded. Restraint, I said, eventually. Exactness of word choice. Precise positioning and placement. The stretching of the ideas over a strong conceptual frame, like a fabric, so the patterns can be traced, and seen. 

Passion is not enough! Emotion is not enough! Ranting is not poetry!Hyperventilation is not expression! Grabbing at the most obvious thing is graceless, inadequate and ill-advised. 

It matters that not every situation can be reduced to a meme or a GIF. Not everything is interchangeable and shareable and relatable. In my opinion, anyway. 

My own Paris is the silhouetted trees on the boulevards in winter, and the waffles bought and eaten hot from vans with chestnut chocolate sauce; and the strange feeling when you walk past the place where the guillotine used to stand, at the Place de la Concorde. Not so much the overarching hollow victory of the Arc de Triomphe. 
It was buying three big blue buttons for my winter coat, with all the French I didn’t learn in school in one of those tiny haberdashery shops which are so hard to find anywhere these days. 
It was imagining the mobs and the aristos being publicly leveled and taken down in front of them. The fading of the great ideal of the Republic. It was all that, but without heartbreak. 

Hughes said in his poem that he and Plath stayed in the ‘Hotel Des Deux Continents’, showing their inability to bridge their otherness even in supposedly the most intimate stage of marriage. He found her reactions to things vociferous and hectic, almost anticipated or rehearsed, ringing hollow in his ears. 

Hughes became Poet Laureate of England in his time. Somewhat known. An original voice. 

Plath became a feminist icon. Gone too soon. Died too young. Lady Lazarus. Indeed, she would have had to rise from the dead to write the poem that woman claimed she did. 

I wish that Ingrid Bergman could have married both men, in ‘Casablanca’, because her character clearly loved both of them. I wish Hughes and Plath had had a happier honeymoon. But I am glad that the grating incompatibilities of time, temperament and circumstance produced that classic film, and some wonderful 20thC poetry, to redeem the despair of terrorism and the trauma of delusion and false hope. 

Teaching us all the difference between friend and frenemy: what is true, and what is faux. 

Where Have All The Flowers Gone?







People process grief in different ways. Some throw themselves into work, either physical labour or intellectual challenge, which provide an alternative to the maelstrom of emotion. Some take up soothing, mechanical, repetitive tasks like washing dishes or sorting linen or cross-stitch embroidery. 

We are told about the healing power of nature: watching the sunrise, seeing butterflies fluttering through colorful flowers, going on forest walks or climbing hills to reach a summit. 

It would take a cultural anthropologist to sort through the myriad alternatives and make a specific recommendation to suit each distinctive individual. 

Years ago, at the wedding of a dear friend whose mother had an acerbic tongue, I was warned to hold my own and refrain from response, as the lady had no filter, and had shown all her life zero awareness of the feelings she was hurting by speaking as she habitually did. Fortunately, I did promise to refrain, and that restraint was required, as it turned out. She insulted her own daughter while we were dressing her for the wedding: ‘Thank goodness she has finally lost weight!”, she said. “At least she can fit into this dress”. I excused myself and left the room, and took several deep breaths in the corridor. I may have jumped up and down, a few times, in all my bridesmaidery finery. 

Human beings are sometimes appallingly inappropriate in their single-minded drive for whatever is in their own focus at times of stress. I did not have to live with my friend’s mother. I only had to grit my teeth for two days and smile and make a speech, and wish them well, and leave. 

Funerals, too, are times of great communal stress. Whenever numbers of people come together, chaos is almost inevitable. 

At a funeral last week, several incidents occurred of interest to cultural anthropologists. Different societies have different bereavement and burial customs, and the custom followed at that funeral was that the body of the person who had died was laid out in his parents’ home for two days, followed by a cremation. 

On the first day, the casket was open, and the people sat around it and offered their condolences and support to the grieving parents of the deceased. Coffee and tea and refreshments were served to those out in the garden in the marquees. 

A famous cricketer, related to the widow of the man who had died, came to pay his respects. And - to my amazement - I saw a group of women in their 40s line up to request to take selfies with this celebrity, with the body of the dead person lying there right next to them. Seeing me staring at them in total astonishment, they invited me to join them. I told them I was not a fan. And that was the understatement of the year. 

Later in the proceedings, I saw a lady I had never seen before go and stand looking at the face of the dead man, and then deliberately move aside the velvet ropes that had been placed around the casket and step right up to him and touch him all over his face. To be fair, her husband had been trying to stop her, but was pushed aside with the force of a bulldozer. Crying, this woman explained to me that she felt entitled to do this, because he had been like a son to her. She felt like his mother. 

I said his actual mother would be surprised to know that. All these years, she had thought she was the only one. I had found it offensive to see this lady touching my brother’s beloved face. Every protective, territorial feeling I had was rampant. 

The worst outrage, though, was perhaps the most mundane. Returning home after the cremation, we found the house bare. All the flower arrangements, wreaths and bouquets, including those sent to my mother and myself, personally, as expressions of love and support from dear friends, had been removed. 

Where have all the flowers gone? I asked. 

The person who had made the arrangements said : oh, sorry, but they are taken with the hearse. I was told by some of my friends that the funeral parlours resell the flower arrangements, and that it is big business. I could not believe it. But apparently some do - and if you leave floral arrangements on the graves of your loved ones at the cemetery, people steal them. One friend said she now breaks up the floral arrangements her family take to the cemetery, and that she scatters the flowers on her father’s grave by hand, to prevent this happening. 

Were the flowers resold? Or were they burnt together with the casket at the crematorium? Does it matter, at all, given that the flowers were only going to last in their beauty for a day or two, at the most? And in any case, there is a superstition that funeral flowers should not be kept in the house after the person has been buried or cremated. 

But it mattered to me. All these incidents, small in themselves, felt like disrespectful violations. I know this is because of the great loss we have suffered, and the intense grief we are feeling, which magnifies everyday human actions and their impact. Perhaps I did not want to lose my place in the hierarchy of grief, or admit that anyone else could have loved my brother as we did. 

But I went to the flower markets and got all the colourful flowers I could find, from the buckets of flowers on Eye Hospital Road: big bunches of gold and orange and red and yellow, like fireworks, in every available vase and jug, on every windowsill and table, to light up the house. Much more vibrant than the white ones that were sent to us for the funeral. 

We are told playing the music my brother loved will help us think of him with joy. So, now all the hundreds of people have gone, we can do that. And he can hear it, and be happy, in heaven. 

And I can plant some butterfly flowers at his grave, so that no one here on earth can take the flowers away. 

Where Your Treasure Is





Global warming, drought and catastrophic climate change are no longer mere theories or background news on the television. A friend of mine in rural Australia was evacuated from her home a few days ago. On Boxing Day, she and her family were having a picnic by a stream. 

Three days later, she describes how the bush fires had threatened the town she lives in. They had cleared the garden of all debris and flammable material, and soaked everything in water, as a deterrent. But the fire fronts had advanced, they were told to evacuate, and then she had been given only a few hours in which to return to her house and collect the things of most value to her before the fierce winds changed direction again. 

She said she stood, strangely energised with excess adrenaline, in the middle of her home and wondered what she should take. Her family and pets were safe. What mattered most to her, faced with this disaster? Her computers? Her books? Her music? Paintings done by her husband? Her dog’s special basket and food and water bowls? 

What a decision to have to make. I remember 15 years ago when the tsunami hit Sri Lanka, an elderly couple in Mount Lavinia, who had been teachers of my parents in their school days, would not believe the sea would come up to their home. They did not want to leave. How could they even begin to move anything out of there? They did not have the physical strength to lift anything. It was all we could do to persuade them to come with us in the car to higher ground, before the wave hit. 

We only knew about the tsunami because someone in a neighbouring house had cable TV and we heard there had been an earthquake in Indonesia. And when we had arrived, with an iced cake in a beautiful box, to have morning tea with them on Boxing Day, they said the ocean had vanished. The tide had gone out. It was abnormal. 

Experience of recent bush fires in Sydney made us suggest to them that they should take their important personal documents such as passports, bank books, birth certificates and land title deeds. These are crucial, from a practical point of view. But the most important things to save are all the photographs and albums of family pictures, above all else. These cannot be replaced, especially if there are no digital copies of them. 

My friend is a writer, and she said that, for her, deciding what books to take was excruciating. In the end, she ran out of time and had to leave them. She was still, when I started to write this article, unsure if her home had survived or not. It now appears that her home has been lost to the fire. 

Her description of her situation of choice  faced with a firestorm reminded me of the great Sherlock Holmes story by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, ‘A Scandal In Bohemia’. The great detective solves a mystery in that instance by himself orchestrating the threat of fire, and observing the actions of a woman who had concealed a document in a place no one had been able to find. 
Sherlock Holmes explains his thinking: 

‘When a woman thinks that her house is on fire, her instinct is at once to rush to the thing which she values most. It is a perfectly overpowering impulse... A married woman grabs at her baby; an unmarried one reaches for her jewel-box. Now it was clear to me that our lady of today had nothing in the house more precious to her than what we are in quest of. She would rush to secure it.’ 

The Holy Bible endorses this perspective  as well. In the Gospel of St. Matthew, Chapter 6, Verse 21, we are told Jesus told his disciples ‘Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also’. 

Abraham Maslow’s Hierarchy Of Needs outlines the need for shelter, food and sleep as ground-level, universal, basic requirements for human survival. The next level up is human contact, affection and social connection. What a lot of people realize after they have been evacuated is how unnecessary a lot of things we accumulate are, for our actual lives. They make our lives more comfortable and convenient, but are ultimately replaceable. 

What cannot be replaced are the lives of living beings, and homes which have been built by the hands of their owners. Religion teaches us to detach ourselves from material things, but the everyday objects of our lives are dear to us. It is not only the value of our homes measured in square feet or perches, but the value of the lives we live in them, that we try to secure. 

I would advise not waiting for an emergency to make these decisions. Calmly, carefully, select items which mean a great deal to you, from each room in your home. Put all the things you cannot live without, including photograph albums and family pictures, in a suitcase with a strong handle, and keep this in an accessible place. 
That bag should contain everything you need to start all over again, if you should ever need to. 

15 years ago, my parents’ teachers’ home in Mount Lavinia was spared: because of the angle at which it was built, it was not directly in the way of the terrible wave. But the salt water destroyed their garden, and came right up to their door. 

There are still two months of summer temperatures ahead for Australia, and this is going to be like fighting a war. The country will not be the same again. Thousands of animals have already perished: livestock and pets as well as wildlife. Decisions about what to take and what to leave, what is irreplaceable and what is replaceable, will be made by thousands of people. 

Only when the immediate threat to personal survival is over, can the damage to property and land be assessed, and the rebuilding and replanting start. 

Avoid Like The Plague











We used to metaphorically talk about people wearing masks in our society, meaning they were masquerading: pretending - for whatever reason - to be what they are not. Now, with the threat of the highly infectious corona virus spreading across the world, surgical -style masks are selling out of pharmacies all over the country. Rumors are spreading virally, too, fed by human fear and its toxic by-products: racism, survivalism and selfishness. 

‘Chinese people are responsible for it!’ say the pseudo PSA mongers on FB, often those with national flags prominently on their profiles. ‘It’s the gross animal products they eat, the lack of hygiene in their wet markets, the way they are taking over the world, with their massive populations. This is karma: payback from the universe for their economic success.’ 

Readers of airport thrillers written by Dan Brown point out that a major viral research facility is located in Wuhan, a few hundred metres from the open markets where the virus is suspected to have first broken out. Perhaps there was covert research being carried out on biomedical weaponry - an airborne virus that was communicated through inter-human contact. Perhaps it was mistakenly let out too soon as the result of human error or industrial accident - or perhaps it is actually deliberately being unleashed, to cull the burgeoning population. I have seen people actually saying ‘65 million people are predicted to die from this. Perhaps that will bring the human race’s numbers back down into a controllable level.’

Perhaps Fortune 500 billionaires in first world countries are going to decide who lives and who dies, this year. And out come the alarmists and their awful predictions: of hospitals with 100,000 beds becoming morgues in the epicentre and breeding ground of the viral illness. A video circulating from Wuhan last week shows people dropping on the street, as in the days of the plague. 

Two weeks ago, we saw climate refugees being evacuated from the Australian bush fires. Now we see people in hazmat suits in eerily deserted streets and shiny train stations and public buildings of a huge and industrialized city. We are told this is a new or novel virus, to which we as a species have not yet developed ‘herd immunity’. 

The only thing we can be fairly certain of  is that we can only limit our own likelihood of becoming infected by this virus by not going to the specific areas of China which are currently affected, and where people are dying; and by limiting our contact both in terms of proximity, and in terms of time spent, with people who are likely to be transmitters of the virus. 

Those members of the community who are immuno-compromised will have to take special care: people whose immunity has been reduced by chronic illness, cancer, HIV/Aids, and other health conditions which make us vulnerable and likely to succumb, where a healthier and more robust person would recover, as if from a cold or flu. 

It is how we respond to this common threat to our species that will reveal our level of national preparedness, and our individual humanity. 9 months ago, the Easter Attacks in this country unleashed virulent fear of terrorism, vengeance that was focused on particular communities, and escalating race hate expressed in speech and action. 

This time, we can already see influencers on social media challenging these fear-based responses from the outset, with facts. We are far more likely to be at risk from a person who looks like us, but who has travelled from that area recently, than from all the South East Asian people who are living here, and have not recently been to China. It is inaccurate and actually racist to discriminate against people (by refusing to serve them in shops, for example) who fall into the ethnic category affected, if their recent travel history gives no cause for concern. 

Just as there are optimal conditions for a biological hazard to thrive, go viral, and devastate us, there are societal conditions and psychological mindsets which escalate the likelihood of this impacting us in a disastrous way. This we have some control over. 

We can choose NOT to spread false or inaccurate information. We can decide NOT to sensationalize. We can determinedly NOT buy up all the face masks in the pharmacies, so there are none left for others.




Instead, we can encourage greater production of face masks and protective clothing for health care providers, and urge better hygiene practices in the community, and ensure reduction of activities which could put us at risk. People suffering from coughs and flu symptoms could refrain from travel during the two weeks since they first felt unwell. 

Illegal workers in the construction and sex industries, among those who are the least likely to self report, should be incentivized to report themselves if they are suffering symptoms that fit the diagnostic criteria of this virus. Doctors and health care workers should be supported to do their job, rather than criticized and accused. Unconscionable predators taking advantage of people’s faith in natural medicines and alternative remedies should not be touting miracle cures to vulnerable citizens with impunity. 

Perhaps most importantly, we can each manage the toxic fear and anxiety in our own emotional state: we can do our best, and believe the best, refraining from acts of exclusion and social cruelty towards others. What we allow ourselves to think will become how we permit ourselves to act. Those actions will add to the consequences we all face. This is causality. 

What will help us survive as a species is not shunning the sick, in a ghoulish enactment of ‘survival of the fittest’, but in developing generosity, and thinking not only of ourselves and those we care about, but of the community as a whole. It requires our evolution, as a species. 

An Exalted State






In some countries of the world, the very wealthy are building a separate city for themselves and their kind within the capital cities they live in, so they, as F. Scott Fitzgerald put it, in The Great Gatsby, can be immune to suffering, ‘shining like silver, safe and proud, above the hot struggles of the poor.’ 

Imagine what that must be like. It reminds me of the description of what Prince Siddhartha’s father tried to provide for his son. He had given strict instructions that his beloved child and heir should not see any mortal suffering - no human being whose youth and vitality had been eroded by illness or age, and no dead person from whom life had been extinguished. 

Nothing to offend his senses or his mind. Immunized. 

The old social contract of feudalism was an agreement involving injustice and fiscal oppression, but those of the Prince’s noble caste felt a sense of social responsibility towards their people. They did not own fleets of expensive cars or private jets or yachts, but their equivalent of these were their pleasure palaces, their jeweled clothing, and their chariots of gold. They were of exalted birth. In those days, an assumption of equivalence was made between nobility of birth and nobility of character. 

Imagine creating a new kind of Silk Road: bypassing every eyesore and waste ground, every open market and every dumping site. The rainbow of stenches. The noxious insects and rodents. The unpleasant stains and discarded remnants of failed initiatives. The dark spaces where abuse, cruelty and corruption serrate the hope and optimism of the unprotected citizens. 

A Silk Road on which a privileged individual could materialise from resort to resort, and even from their home in a gated community in an exclusive area directly to another refined space, deodorised yet full of synthesized colour. A life punctuated by welcome drinks. Uncomprehending and uncaring that it would take the wait staff two hundred years to be able to achieve the lifestyle they are currently enjoying. And does that not add to the pleasure, of some? The brazen legalization of the obscenity of unconcern. The fully-guaranteed, uninterrupted view of the Indian Ocean. Content writers for the websites of real estate developers vying with each other to use cliched words like ‘turquoise’ and ‘aquamarine’ in the glossy brochures. Buy off the plan, and get a discount. A key to the exclusive kingdom, in your outstretched hand. 

The social divisions that are taking place could then be complete - the underclass would be unable to afford to dine at the pristine restaurants and ice cold, sparkling, air-conditioned hotels habituated by the wealthy. They would be brutally and effectively priced out. And the ‘noble savage’ sentiments of the 19thC could emerge again: tales would be told of the beauty and poetry of the lives of the poor, their sturdiness and respectability and low expectations of happiness - the repulsiveness of these ideas enabled by the fact that the poor are not physically to be met with, in the Golden City. Only seen in silhouette against a vivid green landscape, briefly glimpsed as the chariot goes from pleasure palace to pleasure palace. 

Remember the day the Prince broke out of the construct of perfection decreed by his royal Father? He saw all the sights he had been protected from, at once, and the spectacle horrified and repulsed him. 
He saw the human body distorted by illness, and age, and at last devoid of life, being carried to burial. 

Is it any wonder he was so shocked, and almost immediately withdrew from his family and left the life that had been created for him? He realized that his beautiful, wealthy companions, socially graceful and noble of birth and countenance, would age and become ill and pass away, and no amount of wealth or political power could stop this reality. 

We build fortresses, cities within cities of various kinds, and by doing so try to hold back the storm of suffering that this life brings. But there is no immunity in the end. In our numbed adoration of the conveniences, comforts and luxuries our salaries and investments bring us, the privilege status and the reward points and the loyalty cards, we often temporarily forget this. 

We behave as if we can immunize ourselves, from the crudeness of human suffering, the humiliations people routinely endure, and the consequences of the myriad kinds of deprivation that we see all around us. 

In a place of stone, riven by social chasms, the Silk Road dazzles the vision: our senses get tired of being assaulted by the chaos around us. It is understandable, to want respite, when the system suffers thirst and fiery inflammation. 

But the old story shows us that the Prince only became resplendent with enlightenment when he walked out of the glowing restrictions of the palace in which he was raised. 

Chaos Is A Ladder


Image Credit: Game of Thrones HBO TV Series

One of the best players of the political game in the famous television series ‘Game Of Thrones’, Petyr Baelish, tells his equally strategic colleague, Varys, at a pivotal point in the story, that ‘Chaos is not a pit; Chaos is a ladder’. It is a powerful, metaphoric way of saying ‘Do not fear change: use disruption to transform your blocks into opportunities, into breakthroughs’. 

This television series appealed to the imagination of millions of viewers, and rightly so. Although it is set in a fantasy realm and a fictional era, we feel that the struggles of the characters are real. 
And that their progress towards their personal goals is complicated and put at risk by a myriad challenges, both external and internal. Just as it is, in real life. 

The politics of the Seven Kingdoms of fabled Westeros is a wonderful spectacle. Their history is still being written. In the last episode of the HBO series, a relatively learned man suggests that, ‘since a ruler is to rule everyone, the decision to choose that ruler should be offered to everyone to make’. The feudal lords and ladies around him find this amusing, disappointingly. But that is not a game, and it is not fiction or fantasy. It is a dream of greater inclusiveness, and better opportunities for all: a wider ladder, up from the pit of chaos. 

There was a wheel of cyclical chaos affecting the kingdoms in the world of Westeros. From our perspective, it is impossible not to see it as samsara, as a drama of egotistical dynamics, pitting themselves against each other. One of the major characters in the story was asked towards the end of her part in the story if she wanted to stop the wheel. People said it was impossible. It had not been done, in living memory. But she said she wanted to break the wheel. Going from one extreme to another may be colorful, but chaos does not result in progress. 

A billion dollar global self-help industry is based on transformational change. And it is a wisdom we can learn in our own lives, as well, in what so many people so often call ‘these troubled times’. 

Do you remember the childhood game ‘Snakes and Ladders’? As the dice rolls, you move your piece on the board, making progress forward, based apparently on chance: a fortunate throw will elevate you rapidly up a ‘ladder’; an unlucky one will plummet you down a winding ‘snake’ - to a lower position. When this happens, you throw again and try to change your luck. You take a long view - with the goal, the glittering prize at the end, in your sights. 


This journey is a fascinating one, applied to the timeline of our own lives; but even more so when we apply it to the progress and evolution of a country. In our actual lives, we can see that times of misfortune and even distress and despair can be opportunities for us to re-shape ourselves: to re-evaluate, to audit, to take stock and reposition ourselves, and our resources. 

The country in which we live has been plunged into chaos, since April 21st. But if we look at ‘chaos as a ladder’, we can see that the disruptions to our self-image as a nation, and the individual anxieties the crisis have unleashed in us, can be used as an opportunity to transform the shape and direction of our collective path into a more positive trajectory. 

We can see that this crisis has insight to reveal to us, if we refrain - as we have, remarkably, in fact, done, this time, to our great credit as a nation - from panic, terror, victimhood and survivalism; and resist the impulse to blame or hate or target others. There were other voices which made themselves heard, as an alternative to the ‘ancestral voices prophesying war’, and many people have listened to these alternative voices. Because these terror attacks were not immediately followed by more orchestrated and organic chaos, but by a tense space in which we could revision ourselves. The people as a whole put their best beliefs into practice. 

It is - perhaps - the most profound distillation of wisdom in Buddhism: learning equanimity. To not react, in a triggered way, to resist becoming a puppet in the hands of manipulators. But to choose the best course of action, and follow it: with determination not to be discouraged or dismayed by the disruptions along the way. 

This is not easy, given the famous volatility of our national character. But this game is not for a mere fictional throne: there is actually a more exalted state than kingship, and that is the freedom and peace of our sovereignty as a nation. 

The people of the country refrained from being stirred into race riots. The hate speech that we see on social media platforms and chat threads is daily exposed for the ugly rhetoric it is. The ladder we create in this chaos can lead us to make better choices, and revision the future we want. 

We make that ladder with our own hands. And break the wheel, in real life. And progress is made possible. 


Will He Burn For Me?

The recent Federal Election in the great country of Australia 🇦🇺 yielded some unexpected insights into the leadership zeal of the PM. Many articles in the Australian media have commented on the devout Christian faith of Scott Morrison, and television programmes have shown him worshipping with enthusiasm in his evangelical church.

Some Australians have confessed that they are embarrassed that their elected representative repeatedly says he will ‘burn for them’, meaning that he is passionately committed to representing their concerns. There is a lot of fire 🔥 in Australia, for sure. Bush fires, hell fire and the fiery invective of entitled radio jockeys — and the fire of the day of judgment, of which Election Day is just a taste. Who is chosen, and who falls short, measured in votes.

97% of the population registered to vote in this election, and the results are therefore a big index of confidence in the leader who until now had a divided party and a perceptibly shaky foundation of support.

A little while before the big day, ‘Sco Mo’, as he is known by his own decree in understated and egalitarian Aussieland, made a Sri Lankan chicken curry for Mother’s Day at home with his family. Several birds were killed that day with one stone, not just the chicken that was the primary ingredient in the delicious dish — which had been made famous throughout the nation as a winning recipe on the TV show Masterchef, shortly before.

It was a beautifully succinct and effective optic: pink from his honest effort, apron tied neatly, the radiant kitchen light 💡 pouring benevolently on his head like a benediction both from God and John Howard, dimples uppermost, the man beams as reassuringly as his stainless steel kitchen utensils, shining in the well-equipped kitchen. In total contrast to the empty fruit bowl of Julia Gillard’s early interview, we have here a man presiding over abundance, and plenty.

Family man. Man enough to cook for his women on Mother’s Day. Inclusive enough to cook a justly famous dish of a South Asian country, something far more exotic than the sun-dried tomato that was the previous yardstick of exotica in Terra Australis. And the caption of the photograph put out by the PR team for the PM appeals to decency, hard work and quiet 🤫ly getting on with things — God knows, qualities we all want to see embodied, in the current era, characterized as it is by the vulgarity of Trump and the virulent threat of global terrorism.



I love this photo. But I have to wonder, as Mr. Morrison heats up the burner under his chicken curry — one of my own favourite dishes too, by the by — does he burn for me, too?



Does the fire of his passion for the greatest country on Earth include those seeking asylum, detained off-shore in reportedly inhumane conditions? With the security guards outsourced to private security firms so the government cannot legally be held directly responsible for their actions? Some of those detainees are Sri Lankan. Is the chicken curry over which the PM is presiding big enough for them, also, to partake of it?

Australia is indeed a great country. It opened its doors to non-white immigrants after the brazenly racist White Australia Policy was dismantled in 1972, under the Labour government of Gough Whitlam. Refugees from Vietnam came in boats — and became dentists, and doctors, and shop owners, and writers. Under Bob Hawke and Paul Keating, immigration was extended to include South Asians, and skilled migrants. In 1992, the rights of indigenous Australians to be regarded as people who could — and did — own title to land was recognized by the Mabo case.

Under the Liberal government of John Howard, those rights recognized and bestowed in law by the High Court of Australia were systematically eroded in actual practice. Pauline Hanson emerged to state that Aborigines had provably smaller brains than white people, that they and other ‘welfare parasites’ were being given special treatment, and ordinary Australians were being ‘ripped off’ in their own country. Howard dismissed the late-breaking and initially hesitant inquiry into the treatment of Aborigines at settlement as unnecessarily negative: ‘a black armband view of history’. But a vast number of Australians, often themselves the second or third generation descendants of recent immigrants, in response to his refusal to apologize for the atrocities of first contact, had enough empathy to understand the experiences of the Stolen Generation, and to listen with a sense of common humanity to the shared experiences of cultural fracture experienced by the First Australians. 

Dark-skinned kids got called ‘chocolate drop’ at school, and Marcia Hines with her dark burnished skin was described in Kingswood Country as ‘having vegemite on her legs’. The official religion is not really Christianity but a sort of cheerful, entitled materialism. It’s a wonderful, wonderful life. And it must be protected, of course. Only those who share our values are permitted to enter.
Desperation and ill intention and the inability to contribute and participate will disqualify some. No one wants to share territory with anyone who is a waste of space.

The generously-sized Kim Beazley, years ago said, when asked about his immigration policy, that his Mum used to say that ‘there was always room for one more’. Some acerbic old geezer at the time commented that he must have thought up that slogan in a pie 🥧 shop.

 ‘Sco Mo’ is the proud inheritor of a lot of traditions. Like other first world countries established on territory which was colonized by Anglo-Saxon, Anglo-Celtic and European invaders, the aggressive dominance of weaponry, and the noise and effectiveness of industrialism and commerce, constantly outperform any other voices. Starting in 1788 as a dumping ground for convicts, and some free settlers, Australia now selects the people we allow to come in, most stringently.

 A colorful, outspoken, controversial young Muslim woman woke up on Anzac Day and wrote a few provocative words, starting ‘Lest We Forget’ and mentioning the treatment of asylum seekers and other groups at risk in other countries. The tsunami of hate-fuelled protest which she received showed that a nation’s household gods and the sacrifices made by their armed forces must be respected, and kept separate from, and unequated with, other people’s strife. There was only room for one narrative. 18 months later she is doing a book tour, supported by large sections of the Australian media and local booksellers. Many were generous enough to forget — perhaps what she endured in public means she has paid her debt, and is back in credit.

When I miss Australia, which is often, I check out the vitriolic comments on the Telstra Facebook page. There are the Australians I know and love: those outraged sceptics, vigilantly aware of their own rights and honoring their responsibilities. Swearing like troopers. Every second word full of asterisks.

 It’s all perfectly decent and reasonable: work hard, pay your respects and take your place in the Aussie way of life. But be prepared, clearly, for cultural appropriation of your signature dishes — and cost-cutting expediency by someone who sees no irony in his actions: grieving for someone close to him who has disability, for example, and cutting funding for those who have disabilities.

 A friend of mine, blonde haired and blue-eyed, descendant of European immigrants, moved suburbs because she did not like the Asianisation of the area in which she had grown up. Those pushy, loud Chinese with their alien values! She posted this up on her FB page, prior to last weekend’s Election:

She says she wakes up early and works hard every day to provide the best life for her family, and this is her reward: heaven on Earth, a little piece of paradise. An unsullied Arcadia. The product of blood, sweat and tears, but with no residue of those evident, all burned away by the hard yards done by all stake holders to earn and own each square metre of real estate. Location. Location. Location.

 I met her when we were both 5 years old — she lived across the street from me, and she and her little brother came over to say hullo when we moved in. When I stayed with her a couple of years ago, her daughter told me, matter-of-factly, that her mum saw me as part of the family.

 But when my friend dropped me off at the end of my stay at the bus stop near her house, with my overnight bags, she said she would wait until the bus came — because the ‘people in the area might mistake you for a refugee, Devi’.

 I grew up in the 1970s and 80s on absolutely equal ground in the sovereign territory of Australia. Watching Countdown. Eating the party pies that made Australia great. I dated Anglo-Celtic boys and young men as an equal. Worked alongside others as an equal. Never once in all that time was my race or my gender belittled or questioned. Hardworking, decent, quiet, simple, honest unthreatened Australians were my friends, employers, co-workers and teachers, guides and mentors, colleagues, peers and students. Some were Polish, some Greek, some Jewish, some Korean, some Chinese, some Indian, some Egyptian, some Italian, some German, some Irish, some French, some Scottish, some Scandinavian. We were in and out of each other’s houses.

 Another childhood friend had a mother who was concerned that immigration would ‘erode the Anglo-Celtic values’ that were the foundation of the Australian way of life. Her daughter, staunch Labor supporter that she is, said the political opinions voiced by her mother on any given day were often based on what she had had for breakfast, and to pay them no mind.

 But the Australia I knew then, whose values of decency and equality and human dignity I was impacted and formed by, has started to change, as all countries and societies do.

 A sun-dried tomato 🍅 which measured the line in the sand, is transitioning perhaps now into a marker lined with chilis 🌶 — and we surely, as a nation, collectively outgrew the marks of monocultural, fear-based, supremacist BS some time ago. Will true decency prevail, amidst the current cross currents of identity politics? If any nation on Earth could showcase that, it could be Australia.

 Australians will know the differences between an immigrant and a refugee; and the differences between a dark-skinned person of Middle Eastern appearance and an actual terrorist. We will be sceptical, and actually fact check when we are told — with photographs, as we were shown, in the Tampa Incident — that immigrants are not quite as human as we are, even capable of throwing their own children overboard, to gain our sympathy — and uneasy access to a land of plenty. There’s rule of law, and a process to follow. Shape up — or ship out.

The checks and balances inherent and learned over time in this great brown land might well bring us onto the generous side of the ledger.